Grafton Inn and Corridor Nine

As we’ve said before, Corridor Nine “means business” and Grafton hopped on board last night in a big way. Larry & Kate Loughan opened up their inn and everybody came. This is one of those events where I had so much fun with so many people that I’m not gonna mention any of them because whoever I leave out might be upset with me. So, let me just say, “Thank you.” to the folks at Corridor Nine and the Grafton Inn as well as the other sponsors, W. B. Smith and Grafton Suburban Credit Union.

If you were there,

 – put your thank you in the comments
 – forward this post to everyone that you saw at the event
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Two things that I learned last night.

1.) Teasing can sometimes be taken the wrong way. Be prepared to take back your words if you can.

2.) Larry is a really fun guy! This is the only time I saw him not smiling last night.

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P. S. – I forgot to mention that Arney and David were there supporting the Chamber and the Inn and letting everyone know that the next after hours was at their place. Don’t miss it!

Mothers vs. Google

Yesterday, Pete Caputa followed through on his promise with this post.

Because he is as good as he is, his post and consequently his contractor friends were ranked #1 by Google.

A while ago, I posted this

And today, I got this comment

Sorry, Pete. I win! A mother’s love beats Google rank every time!

Calling all mothers! Let’s hear it for your offspring. Use the search box at the side of this page, find the post about your child and let’s have some love in a comment. Dan, Linda, Dave, Pete, Dale, Paul, et al. You all know who you are. Send this link to your mother and ask her to comment.

Excellence & Presence

On August 13th, we announced a new offering to a select group of disciples that were ready for an intense program that was designed to stretch and grow participants’ strengths and skills in ways that aren’t possible in other sessions. We aggressively set the start date for the five month program for September 10th. Although the class was almost full, we realized on Wednesday that a few of the candidates were waiting for approval from “above”. After much discussion with my associates, last evening, I sent this email to the people who had already registered.

As you know from our Applications Sessions together, I preach “Promise what you can deliver and deliver what you promise.” I also believe that we at David Kurlan & Associates are held to a higher standard and should always be aware that you are watching the example that we set for you by our actions. With that in mind, you can imagine the conflict that I feel as I deliver the following message. We have decided to delay the start of the RainMaker Clinics to September 24th rather than the 10th. Without making excuses or placing blame, we are waiting for final commitments from a couple of clients who must approve their employee’s participation in the program. We considered starting on the 10th and adding the new participants on the 24th, but after hours, Wednesday, we agreed that it was important to the group that the entire group start and move through the process together so that they can learn to support and learn from each other. I appreciate your understanding and assure you that this minor delay will make for a stronger program. If you have any questions or comments, please feel free to contact me directly.

Rick Roberge

If you want to see a lesson in my email, feel free, but the lessons that I want to point out are in a couple of the responses that I received.

From Rob Jewett:

It must have been that Eagan guy. I just KNOW it. One or more of HIS clients must have held this up . . . Gosh . . . I hope it wasn’t my questioning that caused this delay!

At any rate, your message reminds me of a television show to which I have become inexplicably addicted. Bravo’s “Top Chef” was on last night. In this show, a bunch of folks are competing for a large prize and great opportunity in the professional culinary industry. One of the competitors last night finished his recipe and sampled it. He decided that it was so bad that he would not submit it to the judge. Rather than putting out something of which he was not proud, he chose to offer nothing, and hope to make up for it with a big hit in the next round. We at Terracon also believe that we are better off if we are late delivering the product that fits the customer’s need than if we are on time with an incomplete or inappropriate product. Besides, we’ll probably pay late, too.

Look at Rob’s use of humor in the first paragraph. First the tease of Mike. Then pointing at himself as the possible cause. Then he relates our decision to a recent TV show where the decision was not to offer something that wasn’t ready. Finally, he makes us feel very comfortable by pointing out that our decision is in close alignment with his own company’s philosophy. He wraps it up with the humorous little poke about payment.

Ed Jette had a slightly different approach.

Just get them closed, Ed

We have some great clients. It’s easy to see why these companies were selected for this elite RainMaker Clinic. They have the ability to be “present”. They demand quality of themselves and consequently can expect it from others, while at the same time recognizing that stuff happens. Lastly, they approach business and service seriously, but are always ready to inject humor into the moment to keep everybody comfortable.

Thank you, gentlemen.

Selling Style, Life Style, Blog Style

We all have our style.

I plan my work around my vacations.

I tend to let my principles get in the way of me making more money.

I tend to like my clients and not let people that I don’t like become clients.

I know me. I know what to expect. That’s my style.

Last week, a fellow blogger that I care about and respect, asked me if I used reddit,, or stumble upon. My immediate reaction was, “No, because it sounded like work”. He said that it was and I added, “Well, that’s why.”

We went on to the next topic of the minute. However, in a quiet time, I let my mind work on my answer. I wanted to know why I don’t want to WORK at growing readership of this blog. I came up with two reasons.

First, I don’t write my blog for people that I don’t care about or that don’t want to know me. I take everyday stuff that I see and put it here for you. Most of you have enjoyed some success and enjoy the water cooler conversation that might include the sales lesson that’s included in my blog. I’m not writing a book. I’m not looking for the CEO’s of St. Gobain, EMC, Staples, TJX, or Commerce Group to call me up and say, “Rick, I want you to teach my salespeople to be able to sell like you.” If I want to talk to them, I’ll call them, but that won’t happen until someone who knows me and cares about them says, “You should talk to Rick. I’m gonna have him call you.” (Incidentally, if you know them, put us together. It might be the beginning of their solution.)

Second…..a future post called selling your blog.

Sales Momentum and Closing Sales

Last week he posted about momentum and the fine line. Don’t forget to read the comments.

Where are you? Let me suggest an exercise. No matter what you actually believe, go back and re-read each of his posts and defend that opposite point of view. NO MATTER WHAT YOU ACTUALLY BELIEVE! Here’s why. No matter what you believe, by presenting a thoughtful, logical case against, you will learn something about yourself. Try it!